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The Fourth Step Inventory form serves as a crucial tool for individuals in recovery, particularly those following the principles outlined in Alcoholics Anonymous. This form encourages a comprehensive self-assessment, guiding users to reflect on both their character defects and their positive traits. The worksheets draw from the Big Book of Alcoholics Anonymous, specifically pages 63-71, emphasizing the importance of honesty and self-awareness. While the form includes a checklist of common flaws, it also allows for personal additions, recognizing that everyone’s journey is unique. It is essential to approach this inventory not as a means of self-criticism, but rather as an opportunity for growth and understanding. Participants are reminded to balance their inventory by acknowledging at least as many positive qualities as negative ones. The form also emphasizes the significance of prioritizing the flaws that cause the most trouble in one’s life, allowing for a focused approach to personal development. By engaging in this process, individuals can begin to identify their values and how they align with their actions, paving the way for meaningful change.

Sample - Fourth Step Inventory Form

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1/1/2005
FOURTH STEP INVENTORY
These
Fourth Step
worksheets use the wording from
Alcoholics Anonymous
(the Big Book)
pages 63-71. Text in
italics
is quoted from the Big Book. When the word “optional” is used in
the worksheets, it means that the Big Book suggests doing this but does not suggest writing
anything down. However, many people who have used these worksheets found it helpful to
write down their flaws and their specific defects.
Remember, these worksheets are meant to be helpful, but do not feel restricted by them.
You can get the latest version of these worksheets and other AA materials at www.royy.com.
These worksheets are not officially produced or approved by Alcoholics Anonymous. They have been circulating unofficially
among AA members for at least 50 years in various versions. Their origin is unknown to the producer of this version.
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H
ELPFUL
H
INTS
P
REPARATION
: before you start this
written Fourth Step, read pages 63-71 in the
Big Book and the Fourth Step in the
Twelve
Steps and Twelve Traditions.
N
OTE
:
1. This inventory is
not
an exercise in
beating yourself up. Be scrupulously honest
but be fair to yourself. Inventory your
strengths as well as your defects.
2. The following checklist merely
suggests
what some people consider flaws. You must
decide how they fit with your own moral
code. Do not be limited by this list--add your
other flaws and assets. It is in this Fourth
Step that you begin to discover
your
values–
what
you
consider right and wrong,
functional and dysfunctional behavior–and
how you live up to
your
standards.
3. This inventory is about who you are
now
,
not who you were when you were drinking
and taking drugs. Be careful, however, not to
blame all past bad behavior on drinking and
drugs if the seed of that bad behavior still
exists in you.
4. Don't be discouraged when your character
defects are not immediately lifted after you
have completed your 5th Step--that is the
work of the 6
th
, 7
th
and 10
th
Steps.
5.
Prioritize!
Spend most of your time on
the 20% of your flaws that cause 80% of the
trouble in your life. You can initially check
off as many flaws as you want on the
checklist but then prioritize to the 12 that
cause the most trouble.
If you list more
than 12 flaws, you are probably beating
yourself up!
You must check at lease
twice
as many assets
as you check flaws or you
really are beating yourself up.
I
NTO
A
CTION
:
On the following list, check
all of your defects
and
all of your assets.
This is an inventory of
both
bad and good
characteristics. Then discuss your defects
(with your best example of each) on the
Review of Flaws
form.
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Glossary of Words Used in Steps Four and Five
Moral Inventory
..
A list of personality defects, violations of moral
principles, defects in character, maladjustments,
and dysfunctional behavior.
Character ...............Moral vigor or firmness, especially as acquired
through self-discipline.
Defect ....................Lack of something necessary for completeness; flaw;
weakness, fault; same as Shortcoming.
Dishonest...............The act or practice of telling a lie, or of cheating,
deceiving, stealing, etc.
Exact......................Precise, detailed.
Fault.......................Something done wrongly, an error or mistake.
Fear........................Painful emotion marked by alarm, dread, anxiety,
agitation, uneasiness, apprehension, etc.
Frightened .............A temporary or continual state of Fear. Anxious.
Inconsiderate ......... Without thought or consideration of others.
Nature.................... The essential characteristic of a thing.
Self-centered ......... Occupying or concerned only with one’s own affairs
(same as Selfish).
Self-seeker ............A person who seeks only or mainly to further his
own interests.
Selfish ................... Too much concerned with one’s own welfare or
interests and having little or no concern for others
(same as self-centered).
Shortcoming..........Falling short of what is expected or required (same
as Defect).
Wrong ...................Immoral, improper; not suitable or appropriate.
Footnotes to the list on following page:
1
Dr. Bob’s Fourth Step List; in “He Sold Himself Short,” (
Alcoholics Anonymous,
p. 292)
2
Seven Deadly Sins (
Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions,
p. 48)
3
Clarence Snyder’s Fourth Step List (one of the original 40 members of AA, see “Home Brewmeister,
Alcoholics Anonymous,
pp. 297-303)
4
Boy Scout Law, Robert Binkey's
The Official Boy Scout Handbook
(10th edition, 1990)(so?
. . . what? . . . )
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Checklist of Flaws and Assets
4 Character Defect Opposite Asset 4
aggressive, belligerent good-natured, gentle
angry
2
forgiving, calm, generous
apathetic interested, concerned, alert
apprehensive, afraid calm, courageous
argumentative, quarrelsome agreeable
arrogant, insolent unassuming, humble
attacking, critical fair, self-restrained
avoidant faces problems and acts
blocking honest, intuitive
boastful modest, humble
careless
1
careful, painstaking, concerned
cheating honest
competitive (socially) cooperative
compulsive free
conceited
1
,
self-imp ort ant humble, modest
contradictory, oppositional| reasonable, agreeable
contrary, intractable, pigheaded reasonable
controlling lets go, esp. of other's lives
cowardly brave
4
critical
3
non-judgmental, praising, tolerant,
cynical open-minded
deceitful guileless, honest
defensive open to criticism
defiant, contemptuous respectful
denying honest, accepting
dependent accepts help but is self-reliant
depressed, morose| hopeful, optimistic, cheerful
4
dirty, poor hygiene clean
4
dishonest
3
honest
disloyal, treacherous faithful, loyal
4
disobedient obedient
4
disrespectful, insolent respectful, reverent
4
enabling setting boundaries, tough love
envying
2
,
3
empathetic, generous, admiring
evasive, deceitful candid, straightforward
exaggerating honest, realistic
faithless, disloyal reliable, faithful
falsely modest honest, has self-esteem
falsely prideful
2
,
3
modest, humble
fantasizing, unrealistic practical, realistic
fearful
3
confidant, courageous
forgetful responsible
gluttonous
2
, excessive moderate
gossiping
3
closed-mouth, kind, praising
greedy
2
,
3
moderate, generous, sharing
hateful
3
forgiving, loving, concerned for others
hypersensitive tolerant, doesn't personalize
ill-tempered
1
, bit chy good-tempered, calm
impatient
3
patient
impulsive, reckless| consistent, considered actions
inconsiderate thoughtful, considerate
indecisive, timid firm, decisive
indifferent, apathetic, aloof caring
inflexible, stubborn open-minded, flexible
insecure, anxious self-confident, secure
insincere
3
, hypoc ritical sincere, honest
intolerant
1
tolerant, understanding, patient
irresponsible, reckless responsible
isolating, solitary sociable, outgoing
jealous
1
,
3
trusting, generous, admiring
judgmental broadminded, tolerant
justifying (own actions) honest, frank, candid
lack of purpose purposeful
lazy, indolent industrious, conscientious
loud tasteful, quiet
lustful
2
healthy sexuality
lying
3
honest
manipulative candid, honest, non-controlling
masked, closed honest, open, candid
nagging supportive
narrow minded open minded
obscene, crude modest, courteous
over emotional emotionally stable
perfectionistic realistic goals
pessimistic| realistic, hopeful, optimistic, trusting
possessive generous
prejudiced open-minded
procrastinates
3
disciplined, acts promptly
projecting (negative) clear sighted, optimistic
rationalizing candid, honest
resentful
1
,
3
, bitter, hateful forgiving
resisting growing willing to grow
rude, discourteous polite, courteous
4
sarcastic
1
praising, tolerant
self-important
3
humble, modest
self-centered caring of others
self-destructive, self-defeating self-fulfilling
self-hating self-accepting, loving
self-justifying
3
admitting wrongs, humble
self-pitying
3
grateful, realistic, accepting
self-righteous humble, understanding
self-seeking
3
selfless, concerned for others
selfish
1
,
3
altruistic, concerned with others
shy outgoing
slothful (lazy)
2
,
3
industrious, taking action
spiteful, malicious forgiving
stealing honest
stubborn open-minded, willing
sullen cheerful
superior, grandiose, pretentious humble
superstitious realistic, no magical thinking
suspicious trusting
tense calm, serene
thinking
negatively
3
being positive
treacherous trustworthy
undisciplined, self-indulgent disciplined
unfair fair
unfriendly, hostile, bitchy friendly
4
ungrateful thankful, grateful
unkind, mean, malicious, spiteful kind
4
unsupportive of others supportive
untrustworthy, unreliable, dishonest| trustworthy
4
useless, destructive helpful
4
vain modest, humble
vindictive forgiving
violent gentle
vulgar
3
polite
wasteful thrifty
4
willful accepting of the inevitable
withdrawn outgoing
wordy, verbose frank, to the point, succinct
Other dysfunctional ways of acting, feeling or
thinking which cause others or me pain (specify in
the following
Review of Flaws
).
See source footnotes on page 2.
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Instructions for Completion
First, we searched out the flaws in our make-up which caused our failure.
REVIEW OF FLAWS
(optional)
F
LAW
Give your best example of this specific flaw in your life.
1
2
3
4
5
6
7
8
9
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F
LAW
Give your best example of this specific flaw in your life.
10
11
12
If you must list additional flaws do so below. Do not beat yourself up.
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RESENTMENTS
Do not be restricted by this list. It is just to help you get started. List your resentments on the next pages.
PEOPLE
Father
Mother
Boy Friends/Lovers
Brothers
Sisters
Sponsors
Employers
A.A. Friends
Acquaintances
Aunts
Best Friends
C.A. Friends
Childhood Friends
Clergy
Co-Workers
Cousins
Creditors
Doctors
Employees
Girl Friends
Husbands
In-Laws
Judges
Lawyers
Life-long Friends
Parole Officers
Police
Probation Officers
School Friends
Teachers
Uncles
Wives
INSTITUTIONS
Authority
Bible
Child Protection
Church
Correctional System
Education System
Government
Law
Marriage
Health/Mental Health System
Nationality
Philosophy
Races
Religion
Society
PRINCIPLES
Adultery
Death
God-Deity
Golden Rule
Heaven
Hell
Homophobia
Jesus Christ
Life After Death
Original Sin
Retribution
Satan
Seven Deadly Sins
Sin
Ten Commandments
MORE from your experience!
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Step Four
Resentments
Checklist
Column 4*
“Putting out of our minds the wrongs others had done, we resolutely looked for our
own mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened?”
S
ELFISH
Not seeing others point of view,
problems or needs
Wanting things my way
Wanting special treatment
Wanting others to meet my needs–
dependence
Wanting what others have
Wanting to control–dominance
Thinking I'm better–grandiosity
Wanting to be the best
Thinking others are jealous
Wanting others to be like me
Being miserly, possessive
Wanting more than my share
Reacting from self loathing, self
righteousness
Too concerned about me
Not trying to be a friend
Wanting to look good or be liked
Concerned only with my needs
D
ISHONEST
Not seeing or admitting where I was
at fault
Having a superior attitude–thinking
I'm better
Blaming others for my problems
Not admitting I've done the same
thing
Not expressing feelings or ideas
Not being clear about motives
Lying, cheating, stealing
Hiding reality–not facing facts
Stubbornly holding on to inaccurate
beliefs
Breaking rules
Lying to myself
Exaggerating, minimalizing
Setting myself up to be “wronged”
Expecting others to be what they are
not
Being perfectionistic
S
ELF
S
EEKING
Manipulating others to do my will
Putting others down internally or
externally to build me up
Engaging in character assassination
Acting superior
Acting to fill a void
Engaging in gluttony or lusting at the
expense of another person
Ignoring others’ needs
Trying to control others
Getting revenge when I don't get
what I want
Holding a resentment
Acting to make me feel good
F
RIGHTENED
(
OF
)
Peoples' opinions
Rejection, abandonment
Loneliness
Physical injury, abuse
Not being able to control or change
someone
My inferiority, inadequacy
Criticism
Expressing ideas or feelings
Getting trapped
Exposure, embarrassment
_______________
*Thanks to Anonymous in New England.
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Instructions for Completion
Complete each column top to bottom before proceeding to the next column.
Thus, for instance, fill in all the names of those you are resentful at
before filling in the column for the cause of each resentment. List real resentments, not imaginary or
theoretical resentments. Is the resentment a problem for you, does it cause you pain?
Column 1 In dealing with resentments we set them on paper. We listed people, institutions or principles with whom we were angry.
Column 2 We asked ourselves why we were angry.
Column 3 On our grudge list we set opposite each name our injuries. Was it our self-esteem, our security, our ambitions, our
personal, or sex relations which had been interfered with?
Column 4 Referring to our list again. Putting out of our minds the wrongs others had done, we resolutely looked for our own
mistakes. Where had we been selfish, dishonest, self-seeking and frightened?
Column 5 This Column is optional. List specific other defects to show your participation in the resentments.
Reading from left to right we now see the resentment (Column 1), the cause (Column 2), the part of self that had been affected
(Column 3), and the exact nature of the defect within us that allowed the resentment to surface and block us off from God’s will
(Columns 4 and 5).
COLUMN 1 COLUMN 2
REVIEW OF
RESENTMENTS
“SELF”
COLUMN 3 COL. 4 COLUMN 5
Affects My My Specific
Own Defects
Mistakes (optional)
I’m
RESENTFUL
at: The Cause:
1
2
3
4
5
6
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I’m
RESENTFUL
at: The Cause
7
8
9
10
11
12
If you must list additional resentments do so below.
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FEARS
Do not be restricted by this list. It is just to help you get started. List your fears on the next pages
abandonment
aging
anger
authority figures
being alone
being deceived
being found out
being myself
change
compliments
confrontation
creditors
death
denial, my
disapproval
disease
divorce
embarrassment
employment
facing myself
failure
fear
feelings
financial insecurity
flying
fourth & fifth steps
future, the
getting fat or thin
God
going home
going out on a “whim”
having children
homelessness
homosexuality
honesty
humiliation
hurting others
I’m a fraud and others will find out
incarceration
intimacy
IRS, the
letting go
living
loneliness
losing hope
love
mediocrity
money
needing anyone
not being good enough
not being happy
not being liked
not being perfect
people (specify who)
police, the
poverty
procrastination
rape
rejection
relationships
resentments, my
responsibility
risks
saying that I can’t do something
sex
sponsor, my
success
unemployment
unknown, the
violence
work
Search your own experience for other fears.
.

Form Information

Fact Name Fact Description
Origin The Fourth Step Inventory worksheets have circulated unofficially among AA members for over 50 years.
Big Book Reference The worksheets use wording from Alcoholics Anonymous (the Big Book), specifically pages 63-71.
Optional Writing When “optional” is mentioned, it suggests writing down flaws can be helpful, but it is not required.
Honesty Participants are encouraged to be honest but also fair to themselves while taking inventory of their strengths and defects.
Focus on Present This inventory reflects who individuals are now, not who they were while drinking or using drugs.
Prioritization Focus on the 20% of flaws that cause 80% of the trouble, aiming to identify the most impactful issues.
Character Defects The inventory includes both flaws and assets, allowing for a balanced self-assessment.
Review Process After completing the inventory, individuals should discuss their defects with examples on the Review of Flaws form.
Governing Laws These worksheets are not officially produced or approved by Alcoholics Anonymous and are not governed by any specific laws.

Detailed Guide for Filling Out Fourth Step Inventory

Completing the Fourth Step Inventory form is an important part of your personal journey. This step involves taking an honest look at both your strengths and weaknesses. After filling out the form, you will be ready to discuss your findings, particularly your character defects, with a trusted person. This conversation will help you gain insight and foster growth.

  1. Prepare for the task by reading pages 63-71 of the Big Book and the Fourth Step in the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions.
  2. Find a quiet space where you can focus without distractions.
  3. Start by checking off all the flaws you recognize in yourself from the provided list. Don’t hesitate to add any additional flaws you identify.
  4. Next, check off your assets. It’s crucial to acknowledge your positive traits as well.
  5. Once you have completed the checklist, review your selected flaws and prioritize them. Focus on the top 12 that cause the most trouble in your life.
  6. Ensure that you have checked at least twice as many assets as flaws to maintain a balanced perspective.
  7. For each flaw, provide your best example of how this flaw has manifested in your life in the Review of Flaws section.
  8. If you have additional flaws to list, do so in the space provided, but remember not to be overly critical of yourself.

Obtain Answers on Fourth Step Inventory

  1. What is the purpose of the Fourth Step Inventory form?

    The Fourth Step Inventory form serves as a tool for individuals in recovery to reflect on their character traits. It encourages a balanced assessment of both strengths and weaknesses. The goal is to identify personal flaws and assets, allowing individuals to understand their values and behaviors better. This self-reflection is not about self-criticism but about gaining insight into how one can grow and improve.

  2. How should I prepare to complete the Fourth Step Inventory?

    Preparation is key to effectively using the Fourth Step Inventory. Start by reading pages 63-71 of the Big Book and the Fourth Step in the Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions. This foundational knowledge will provide context and guidance. It’s also essential to approach the inventory with honesty and fairness. Remember to inventory both your flaws and strengths, focusing on the present rather than past behaviors influenced by alcohol or drugs.

  3. Can I customize the Fourth Step Inventory to fit my needs?

    Yes, customization is encouraged. While the form provides a checklist of common flaws and assets, it is important to tailor it to your personal moral code. If certain traits resonate with you, include them. Additionally, feel free to add any other characteristics you believe are relevant to your self-assessment. The worksheets are meant to assist you, not to limit your exploration.

  4. What should I do after completing the Fourth Step Inventory?

    After finishing the inventory, it’s time to take action. Review your identified flaws and select your best examples for discussion. This is typically done in the Fifth Step, where you will share your findings with someone you trust. Remember that the process of addressing these flaws continues with subsequent steps, so be patient with yourself as you work through this journey of self-discovery and growth.

Common mistakes

When filling out the Fourth Step Inventory form, many individuals make common mistakes that can hinder their progress. One significant error is focusing solely on flaws without acknowledging strengths. The inventory encourages a balanced view of oneself. If you only list defects, you risk falling into a negative mindset. Recognize your positive attributes alongside your shortcomings. This approach fosters a healthier self-assessment.

Another mistake is misunderstanding the purpose of the inventory. Some people treat it as a tool for self-criticism rather than self-discovery. The inventory is not about punishment; it’s about understanding who you are now. Avoid blaming all past behaviors on substance use. While those experiences are part of your history, it’s essential to recognize the person you are today and the values you uphold.

Many also fail to prioritize their flaws effectively. Listing too many defects can lead to overwhelm and discouragement. The inventory suggests focusing on the 20% of flaws that cause 80% of your problems. If you find yourself checking off numerous items, take a step back. Identify the key issues that truly impact your life and concentrate on those. This targeted approach makes the process more manageable and productive.

Some individuals neglect to engage with the optional aspects of the inventory. While the form provides a checklist, it also encourages personal reflection. Writing down additional flaws or assets that resonate with you can enhance your understanding. Ignoring this opportunity can limit your insights. Use the space to explore your unique experiences and characteristics.

Another common mistake is not being honest with oneself. It’s vital to approach this process with a spirit of honesty and fairness. Avoid downplaying your flaws or exaggerating your strengths. This inventory is a chance to reflect genuinely on your character. Remember, it’s not about self-judgment; it’s about self-awareness.

Finally, some people rush through the inventory without sufficient thought. This is a significant step in your journey, and it deserves your full attention. Take your time to reflect on each flaw and asset. Allow yourself the space to think deeply about your experiences. Rushing can lead to incomplete insights and missed opportunities for growth.

Documents used along the form

The Fourth Step Inventory form is a vital tool for individuals seeking to understand their character and behaviors as part of their recovery journey. Alongside this form, several other documents can enhance the process of self-reflection and personal growth. Each of these documents serves a unique purpose, providing additional structure and support during this important phase of recovery.

  • Review of Flaws Form: This document allows individuals to reflect on specific flaws identified in the Fourth Step Inventory. By providing examples of how these flaws manifest in their lives, users can gain a deeper understanding of their behaviors and the impact they have on themselves and others.
  • Character Asset Inventory: This inventory focuses on the positive traits and strengths of an individual. It encourages users to recognize their assets, promoting a balanced perspective that includes both flaws and strengths. This duality is crucial for fostering self-acceptance and growth.
  • Daily Reflection Journal: A daily journal can be a valuable companion to the Fourth Step process. It allows individuals to document their thoughts, feelings, and experiences as they navigate their recovery. Regular reflection can help reinforce insights gained during the inventory process and track progress over time.
  • Support Group Sharing Guidelines: These guidelines outline best practices for sharing personal experiences in a group setting. They emphasize the importance of confidentiality and respect, creating a safe space for individuals to discuss their inventories and receive feedback from peers who share similar struggles.

Utilizing these forms and documents in conjunction with the Fourth Step Inventory can significantly enhance the recovery experience. Each document provides a framework for understanding oneself more comprehensively, fostering both accountability and compassion. As individuals engage with these tools, they can embark on a transformative journey towards healing and self-discovery.

Similar forms

  • Personal Reflection Journals: Like the Fourth Step Inventory, personal reflection journals encourage individuals to explore their thoughts, feelings, and behaviors. Both tools aim to promote self-awareness and personal growth.
  • Therapeutic Worksheets: Similar to the Fourth Step Inventory, therapeutic worksheets guide users through various exercises to identify and address emotional or behavioral issues. Both documents facilitate structured self-examination.
  • Character Assessments: Character assessments and the Fourth Step Inventory both require individuals to evaluate their strengths and weaknesses. They provide a framework for understanding personal values and moral principles.
  • Self-Help Books: Many self-help books include exercises that parallel the Fourth Step Inventory. These exercises often prompt readers to list personal flaws and strengths, encouraging a balanced view of oneself.
  • Life Coaching Tools: Life coaches often use tools that resemble the Fourth Step Inventory. These tools help clients identify areas for improvement and develop actionable plans for personal development.
  • Behavioral Checklists: Behavioral checklists, like the Fourth Step Inventory, assist individuals in recognizing patterns in their behavior. Both documents serve as a means of tracking personal progress over time.
  • Goal-Setting Worksheets: Goal-setting worksheets often encourage users to reflect on obstacles, similar to the Fourth Step Inventory. Both tools aim to clarify personal aspirations and the challenges that may impede progress.
  • Gratitude Lists: Gratitude lists, while focusing on positive aspects, share a commonality with the Fourth Step Inventory in that they encourage individuals to assess their lives. Both practices promote a balanced perspective.
  • Conflict Resolution Guides: Conflict resolution guides often prompt individuals to explore their roles in conflicts, akin to the self-reflection encouraged by the Fourth Step Inventory. Both documents aim to foster understanding and resolution.
  • Mindfulness Exercises: Mindfulness exercises encourage self-exploration and awareness, similar to the Fourth Step Inventory. Both practices help individuals become more attuned to their thoughts and behaviors.

Dos and Don'ts

When filling out the Fourth Step Inventory form, it is essential to approach the task thoughtfully. Here are some important do's and don'ts to keep in mind:

  • Do read pages 63-71 in the Big Book before starting. Familiarizing yourself with the material will provide context and guidance.
  • Do be honest but fair to yourself. Acknowledge both your strengths and weaknesses to create a balanced inventory.
  • Do prioritize your flaws. Focus on the few that create the most trouble in your life rather than getting overwhelmed by a long list.
  • Do discuss your flaws with examples when reviewing them. This will help you understand and address them more effectively.
  • Don't limit yourself to the checklist provided. Feel free to add any other flaws or assets that resonate with your personal experience.
  • Don't blame all past behaviors solely on drinking or drug use. Recognize that some issues may still exist regardless of substance use.
  • Don't expect immediate results after completing the Fifth Step. Understand that personal growth takes time and involves further steps.
  • Don't check more flaws than assets. Aim to balance your inventory to avoid being overly critical of yourself.

Misconceptions

Misconceptions about the Fourth Step Inventory form can hinder personal growth and recovery. Here are nine common misunderstandings, along with clarifications:

  • It is only about identifying flaws. Many believe the inventory solely focuses on weaknesses. In reality, it encourages a balanced view by also recognizing strengths and assets.
  • It is a one-time exercise. Some think that completing the Fourth Step is a singular task. However, this inventory can be revisited and updated as one continues their recovery journey.
  • It requires perfection. There is a misconception that the inventory must be flawless. The goal is honesty, not perfection. Being fair to oneself is essential.
  • It is only for those who have hit rock bottom. Many assume the inventory is only for individuals in dire situations. In truth, it can benefit anyone seeking personal growth and self-awareness.
  • It will instantly resolve character defects. Some expect immediate relief from their flaws after completing this step. Change is a gradual process that unfolds through subsequent steps.
  • All flaws must be addressed at once. A common belief is that every defect must be tackled simultaneously. Instead, prioritizing the most troublesome flaws is more effective.
  • It is a punishment. Some view the inventory as a means of self-punishment. In contrast, it is a tool for self-discovery and growth, meant to foster understanding and compassion.
  • Writing down flaws is mandatory. There is an assumption that documenting every defect is required. While many find it helpful, the process is ultimately personal and should be adapted to individual needs.
  • It is only for those struggling with addiction. Some think the inventory is exclusive to individuals with substance use issues. However, it can serve anyone looking to improve their moral and ethical standards.

Understanding these misconceptions is crucial for effectively utilizing the Fourth Step Inventory form. By clarifying these points, individuals can approach their personal inventory with a healthier mindset and greater openness to growth.

Key takeaways

Key Takeaways for Filling Out the Fourth Step Inventory Form:

  • Preparation is crucial. Read pages 63-71 in the Big Book before starting the inventory.
  • Be honest but fair. This is not about self-criticism; acknowledge both strengths and weaknesses.
  • Focus on the present. This inventory reflects who you are now, not who you were while drinking or using drugs.
  • Prioritize your flaws. Concentrate on the 20% of flaws that cause 80% of your problems.
  • Check off both defects and assets. Ensure you list at least as many positive traits as negative ones to maintain balance.
  • Use the checklist as a guide. Feel free to add personal flaws and strengths that resonate with your moral code.
  • Don't rush the process. Completing the Fifth Step does not mean immediate relief from character defects; further work is required in subsequent steps.